Distance Doesn’t Mean Forgetting Someone

I’m leaving because I have to be somewhere else. I’m leaving, but I’m taking you with me in my heart. You know you’re always with me. You are a part of me, I love you and I will never forget you. You know I will always love you and listen to you when you need me. We can narrow the distance between us with our words. Distance leaves an empty space, but there is still something. This is just a life lesson that we both need to learn.

I will never forget that time we laughed all afternoon in your house. I will not forget our trips to the other side of the world. I will never forget that I love you like I have never loved anyone. And in no case will I ever forget your smile.

The divorces we experience

Life has many surprises in store for us and some of these surprises come in the form of a separation that feels just like a goodbye, when in fact it is a test and a new beginning at the same time. For example, if your partner has to travel far away for work, this might be the time to make your relationship stronger, get closer by talking for hours, surprising each other, or maybe even kissing each other through the telephone.

Sometimes a friend suddenly moves far away from us, but it doesn’t have to mean that the friendship is over. In a way, our friends are always on our minds and we are always on theirs. At the right moment, a memory comes to mind that makes us laugh.

Distance can be the end of a friendship or relationship if it keeps you from fighting for the relationship or friendship. If you don’t give your all, the distance can make you slowly forget about that other person. Today, however, there are plenty of ways to narrow the distance. The internet, the telephone, flying the plane… And a combination of all these options can help to maintain the friendship or relationship, so that the distance does not fade into oblivion.

How to make a long distance relationship work

It is a very difficult challenge to maintain a long distance relationship, we cannot lie to ourselves about that. Still, it is possible if both people put their best foot forward to keep the band. If the relationship is real and sincere, then this will make it stronger, and if the relationship is not real and sincere, then the distance will irreparably destroy the relationship. Below we give five tips to maintain the relationship regardless of distance:

Be honest

Communication, honesty, and sincerity are important in any relationship, but if you’re miles apart, you’ll have to put in even more effort to keep the relationship going and make each other happy.

Before either of you leaves, it’s important to take a good look at how you feel and what you want from the relationship. Be sincere in this; you can’t fool yourself. You will also need to make it clear to the other person what you want and what you would like this long distance relationship to look like.

The need to be honest and sincere is always present in any relationship, but especially when there is a lot of distance between the partners. You may lose hope at times, but it’s important to stay calm and breathe deeply during these times.

If your partner doesn’t call you back right away, it doesn’t have to mean anything. Maybe he is busy with something and he has no time for a while or maybe there is a time difference and he is sleeping at that moment. There are thousands of possible reasons; so don’t let your imagination run wild. Give things the time they need.

Support the people you love

Life doesn’t collapse because someone you love has to go away for a while. Life goes on, so you’re supposed to enjoy it! Meet up with your friends, go out, have fun, tell them what you’re worried about and forget the distance between you and your loved one for a while. Share your thoughts with your family so they can be there for you and help you feel better about yourself.

Maintain communication between you and the person you are away from

Communication is essential. You can agree on a certain day of the week when you will meet each other every week, you can send emails to each other, chat with each other on WhatsApp, send photos and songs to each other, etc. You can make your relationship stronger despite the distance.

Plan visits

The hope of seeing the other person again should make you agree as soon as possible when and where you will see each other again. Plan visits, agree on what to do, plan where to go, and keep hope alive. And make full use of your time together when you see each other again, show your affection and love and don’t let the distance make you forget each other.