For a long time I completely deceived myself, and the worst part was that I didn’t even realize this. I thought my life was right until I realized I’d only been what I could be, not what I wanted to be.
So it’s not that I did it on purpose, certainly not, but I was anything but honest with myself. It’s a really weird feeling, because in that bubble you don’t realize that you’re not really being yourself. You feel calm and good but not completely full of life.
And when the life force really comes…then you will discover yourself. Then you will see how everything you do or everything that happens to you contains positive energy. You finally seem to feel good and your dreams and goals are getting closer and closer.
The importance of being authentic
Only the really pure things are priceless. Remember this and always stay true to yourself.
The importance of being who you are lies precisely in the freedom to accept everything we have developed over the years, all our experiences and feelings. Our experiences shape us; it is the accumulation of moments that we have experienced that has brought us to this point and there is nothing more rewarding than being aware of this and sharing it.
Being authentic is also the only way we can truly give and receive love and one of the main reasons people around us decide to stay with us: there are no lies, not even to yourself, and the relationships are healthy and strong.
I can be what I really want to be
Being what you want to be always costs a little more than being what is expected of you, but although it is quite a task, if you look closely it is something we absolutely cannot ignore. Society, in which respect and tolerance are often hard to find, makes it extremely difficult for us to expose ourselves to the world.
However, never forget that all this can only cause damage if you let it. Simply act the way you feel, as long as you respect others of course, and let go of the inhibitions in you.
If you find yourself in a situation where you don’t even know you’re not 100 percent yourself, it might be a good idea not to be so hard on yourself. Who knows, the lucky coincidence will hit you and your life will become even happier.
How do I do it?
This is probably the most difficult question to answer, as it depends almost entirely on each individual, on how he feels and how far he is willing to go. One of the processes I went through to become the person I wanted to be was learning to be alone and find my inner peace.
That is, if you decide to give yourself sincerely to others, you must first be honest with yourself. That means listening to yourself, getting to know yourself, understanding that you don’t need company to be complete, being aware of your weaknesses and strengths, acknowledging what’s bothering you and what’s bothering you. likes not to obsess over mistakes, to minimize the importance of what has hurt you… in short, practice introspection.
Something in you has changed and it seems like everything in your life has changed with you: you smile more, challenges are easier and the little things don’t go unnoticed anymore. I therefore advise you to stop looking for your truth in the wrong place.
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